Rule 7 - Going thru the motion of having to contact someone reinforces the desire for said contact and thus increases emotional attachment toward that person. In other words, don’t always have the contact be one sided. Let the other person reach out to you some. Traditionally, the guys are always doing all the pursuing. Ladies, it’s ok to become the chaser on occasion. It takes some of the pressure off the dudes. Give it a shot sometime.
This post was written by Chad Elkins.
